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SWINGERS DICTIONARY AND TERMS

The world of swinging has developed its own set of terminology over the years. We have put together a list of all the swingers terms and to help you get a better understanding of the swingers lifestyle. This list should help you understand most of it.
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AC/DC  ADULT  ALL CULTURES  AMERICAN CULTURE  ANAL SEX  ANALINGUS  ANIMAL TRAINING  ARTS  B&D or B/D  BBW  BESTIALITY  BI  BI-CURIOUS  BIZARRE  BONDAGE  CAN ENTERTAIN  CAN TRAVEL  CANING  CHEATING  CLEAN  CLOSED DOOR  CLOSED SWINGING  CLOSET SWINGER  COUPLE  CPL  CUCKOLD  CULTURE  CUNNILINGUS  DILDO  DIRECTOR  DISCIPLINE  DISCREET OR DISCRETION  DOCILE  DOMESTIC TRAINING  DOMINANT  ELLIS  ENGLISH CULTURE  ENTERTAIN  EXHIBITIONIST  F  FELLATIO  FETISH  FLAGELLATION  FRENCH CULTURE  FUN AND GAMES  GAY  GBM  GENEROUS  GREEK CULTURE  GROUP ROOM  GROUP SEX  GWM  HARD CORE  HARD SWINGING  HEAD  HEDONIST  HETEROSEXUAL  HOMOSEXUAL  HORNY  HUNG  HWP  INDOOR  INDOOR SPORTS  INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP  IRL  ISO  LEATHER  LESBIAN  LTR  MARITAL AIDS  MASOCHISM  MASTER/SLAVE  MATROOM  MEET FOR PLEASURE  MENAGE A' TROIS  MORESOMES  MBC  MBiC  MWC  NASCA  NEWCOMERS  NONSMOKER  OFF-PREMISE  OPEN DOOR  OPEN SWINGING  ORAL-GENITAL  ORGY  PARTY  PARTY CLOTHES  PARTY HOUSE  PASSIVE  PHOTO  PHOTOGRAPHY  P/P  PRO  RECREATIONAL SWINGER  RESTRAINT  ROMAN  ROMAN CULTURE  RUBBER  SADISM  SAFE  S.A.S.E.  SBF  SBiF  SBM  SGL  S&M or S/M  SINGLE  SOCIAL  SOCIAL SWING CLUB  SODOMY  SOFT SWINGERS  SOFT SWINGING  SRS  STD  STR or STR8  STRAIGHT  SUBMISSIVE  SWAPPING  SWEDISH CULTURE  SWF  SWING MAGAZINE  SWINGING  SWINGING LIFESTYLE  SWINGING MARRIAGE  SWM  TAN  THREESOME  TICKET  TOYS  TRANSSEXUAL  TRANSVESTITE  TRAVEL  TRIAD  TRIOLISM  TUBAL LIGATION  UTOPIAN SWINGER  VASECTOMY  VERSATILE  VIBRATOR  VOLUPTUOUS  VOYEUR  VOYEURISM  WAY-OUTS/WEIRDOS
  • AC/DC   top
    Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual.
  • ADULT   top
    Euphemism for pornographic.
  • ALL CULTURES   top
    Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
  • AMERICAN CULTURE   top
    Man on top, the missionary position.
  • ANAL SEX   top
    Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture.
  • ANALINGUS   top
    Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other.
  • ANIMAL TRAINING   top
    Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality
  • ARTS   top
    Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures
  • B&D or B/D   top
    Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a "master" to his/her "slave". (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
  • BBW   top
    Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are..
  • BESTIALITY   top
    (see ANIMAL TRAINING)
  • BI   top
    Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC)
  • BI-CURIOUS   top
    A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities.
  • BIZARRE   top
    Unusual sexual desires
  • BONDAGE   top
    A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
  • CAN ENTERTAIN   top
    Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.
  • CAN TRAVEL   top
    Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
  • CANING   top
    A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
  • CHEATING   top
    Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent.
  • CLEAN   top
    Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases
  • CLOSED DOOR   top
    (see CLOSED SWINGING)
  • CLOSED SWINGING   top
    Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy.
  • CLOSET SWINGER   top
    A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET)
  • COUPLE   top
    In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
  • CPL   top
    (see COUPLE)
  • CUCKOLD   top
    While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
  • CULTURE   top
    Euphemism for Fetish or Arts.
  • CUNNILINGUS   top
    Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE)
  • DILDO   top
    An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
  • DIRECTOR   top
    The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager.
  • DISCIPLINE   top
    A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
  • DISCREET OR DISCRETION   top
    Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
  • DOCILE   top
    Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
  • DOMESTIC TRAINING   top
    Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
  • DOMINANT   top
    A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner.
  • ELLIS   top
    A generally accepted code name used to identify members of the swinging lifestyle. Ellis stands for L.S. (Lifestyle). The question "Are you a friend of Ellis?" can be used to help identify a member of the lifestyle without compromising confidentiality
  • ENGLISH CULTURE   top
    Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning
  • ENTERTAIN   top
    (see CAN ENTERTAIN)
  • EXHIBITIONIST   top
    Behavior in which an individual experiences sexual arousal or pleasure from displaying his/her body. Enjoys being watched.
  • F   top
    Female
  • FELLATIO   top
    Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.
  • FETISH   top
    Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy.
  • FLAGELLATION   top
    Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
  • FRENCH CULTURE   top
    Oral-genital sexual activity;(see Fellatio, Cunnilingus)
  • FUN AND GAMES   top
    Euphemism for sexual activity.
  • GAY   top
    A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
  • GBM   top
    Gay Black Male
  • GENEROUS   top
    Refers to money for sex.
  • GREEK CULTURE   top
    Anal-penile intercourse
  • GROUP ROOM   top
    Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM).
  • GROUP SEX   top
    Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people.
  • GWM   top
    Gay White Male
  • HARD CORE   top
    A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected.
  • HARD SWINGING   top
    (see HARD CORE)
  • HEAD   top
    Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture )
  • HEDONIST   top
    Someone who lives for pleasure.
  • HETEROSEXUAL   top
    Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex.
  • HOMOSEXUAL   top
    Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY)
  • HORNY   top
    Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
  • HUNG   top
    Refers to a man with a large penis.
  • HWP   top
    Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
  • INDOOR   top
    Swinging activities in general
  • INDOOR SPORTS   top
    (See INDOOR)
  • INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP   top
    Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values.
  • IRL   top
    In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat
  • ISO   top
    In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female
  • LEATHER   top
    A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments.
  • LESBIAN   top
    A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY)
  • LTR   top
    Long Term Relationship
  • MARITAL AIDS   top
    Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
  • MASOCHISM   top
    Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others.
  • MASTER/SLAVE   top
    Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)
  • MATROOM   top
    Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
  • MEET FOR PLEASURE   top
    Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity.
  • MENAGE A' TROIS   top
    Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see THREESOME, TRIAD)
  • MORESOMES   top
    More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see GROUP SEX)
  • MBC   top
    Married Black Couple
  • MBiC   top
    Married Bisexual Couple
  • MWC   top
    Married White Couple
  • NASCA   top
    The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.
  • NEWCOMERS   top
    New people in swinging; First-timers.
  • NONSMOKER   top
    Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
  • OFF-PREMISE   top
    No swinging takes place at the club or party; you meet and make your own arrangements. Great for newcomers.
  • OPEN DOOR   top
    (see OPEN SWINGING)
  • OPEN SWINGING   top
    A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy.
  • ORAL-GENITAL   top
    (see FRENCH CULTURE, CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD)
  • ORGY   top
    Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.
  • PARTY   top
    Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
  • PARTY CLOTHES   top
    Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play.
  • PARTY HOUSE (Western US)   top
    A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
  • PASSIVE   top
    Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)
  • PHOTO   top
    Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others.
  • PHOTOGRAPHY   top
    Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs.
  • P/P   top
    Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).
  • PRO   top
    Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.
  • RECREATIONAL SWINGER   top
    A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment.
  • RESTRAINT   top
    Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.
  • ROMAN   top
    Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see ROMAN CULTURE)
  • ROMAN CULTURE   top
    Sexual orgies
  • RUBBER   top
    Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
  • SADISM   top
    Sexual gratification through inflicting pain and humiliation on others.
  • SAFE   top
    Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy; Naturally or surgically sterile.
  • S.A.S.E.   top
    Self-addressed stamped envelope.
  • SBF   top
    Single Black Female
  • SBiF   top
    Single Bisexual Female
  • SBM   top
    Single Black Male
  • SGL   top
    (see SINGLE)
  • S&M or S/M   top
    Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM).
  • SINGLE   top
    A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status.
  • SOCIAL   top
    A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
  • SOCIAL SWING CLUB   top
    A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
  • SODOMY   top
    Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
  • SOFT SWINGERS   top
    Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse.
  • SOFT SWINGING   top
    The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE).
  • SRS   top
    Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING).
  • STD   top
    Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem.
  • STR or STR8   top
    (see STRAIGHT)
  • STRAIGHT   top
    Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people.
  • SUBMISSIVE   top
    Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive)
  • SWAPPING   top
    Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity.
  • SWEDISH CULTURE   top
    Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another
  • SWF   top
    Single White Female
  • SWING MAGAZINE   top
    A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community.
  • SWINGING   top
    An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners; single men and women are sometimes involved.
  • SWINGING LIFESTYLE   top
    Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
  • SWINGING MARRIAGE   top
    Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
  • SWM   top
    Single White Male
  • TAN   top
    Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS)
  • THREESOME   top
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois)
  • TICKET   top
    A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing.
  • TOYS   top
    Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS)
  • TRANSSEXUAL   top
    Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion
  • TRANSVESTITE   top
    A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
  • TRAVEL   top
    (see CAN TRAVEL)
  • TRIAD   top
    Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
  • TRIOLISM   top
    Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD)
  • TUBAL LIGATION   top
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
  • UTOPIAN SWINGER   top
    A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals.
  • VASECTOMY   top
    Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
  • VERSATILE   top
    Bisexual. (see AC/DC)
  • VIBRATOR   top
    Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another.
  • VOLUPTUOUS   top
    Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips.
  • VOYEUR   top
    A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts.
  • VOYEURISM   top
    Sexual gratification by watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
  • WAY-OUTS/WEIRDOS   top
    Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional.

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